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Power of attorney documentation can help older adults grant authority to a trusted individual to make medical, financial, or legal decisions. If their health declines to the point that they cannot make those decisions for themselves, the agent named in a power of attorney may step in and handle those needs.
Often, a power of attorney is given to an adult child who lives nearby and can help manage affairs. But when one sibling controls access, money, records, or decisions, serious family tension can develop.
Concerned a sibling is misusing authority? Learn more about power of attorney abuse in Ohio and what families can do when money, access, or records are being controlled improperly.
If you feel that a sibling is abusing power of attorney, you do have options. The right next step depends on whether your parent still has capacity, what authority the agent was given, whether money or property has been misused, and whether court action is needed to protect your parent.
Facts About Power of Attorney
If a parent names one child as power of attorney and not the others, it can create distrust and frustration. However, it is important to understand the legal implications before assuming abuse has occurred.
First, your parents generally have the right to name whomever they wish and do not have to tell every child whom they chose. Second, the agent is not automatically required to share every detail with siblings. Withholding information may feel frustrating, but it does not always prove abuse by itself.
That said, the agent serving as a financial power of attorney does not have the right to misuse money, hide transactions, steal assets, or act against your parent’s best interests. In the case of medical power of attorney, the agent may have authority over certain healthcare decisions, but that authority must still be used to protect the parent’s health and welfare.
Outside of those rules, the agent must act in your parent’s best interests. If they are using the authority for personal gain, isolating your parent, hiding records, transferring assets improperly, or refusing to account for financial decisions, it may be power of attorney abuse. Depending on the facts, it may also involve a breach of fiduciary duty.
What Can a Power of Attorney Do?
A power of attorney document authorizes the agent to sign documents, make healthcare decisions, pay bills, manage accounts, or handle financial transactions on your parent’s behalf, depending on the type of POA and the powers granted in the document.
Under the law, the agent must act in the parent’s best interests. They are not allowed to:
- Make changes to a will
- Use the power of attorney document after the parent’s death
- Use the parent’s money for personal benefit
- Act in a way that harms the parent financially or medically
- Transfer the power of attorney to someone else unless legally permitted
The most common causes of abuse with power of attorney involve finances. Since the agent may have access to checks, bank accounts, bill payments, and financial records, abuse can happen when the agent starts treating the parent’s money as their own.
Warning Signs of POA Abuse
Family disagreement alone does not always mean abuse. But certain warning signs should be taken seriously, especially when an elderly or vulnerable parent is dependent on the person who controls their finances or access to care.
Large cash withdrawals, transfers, or spending that does not match your parent’s needs.
Refusal to provide basic information about bills, accounts, property, or care expenses.
A sibling blocks visits, phone calls, or communication without a valid health or safety reason.
Property, vehicles, accounts, or valuables are moved into the agent’s name.
Who Can Override a Power of Attorney?
As long as your parent can make decisions for themselves, they can revoke or change the power of attorney. However, once they become incapacitated, they may no longer be able to revoke it on their own. At that point, court involvement may be necessary.
Before going to court, start by talking to your parent if they are still able to understand and make decisions. They may be able to revoke the power of attorney or name a different agent. If that does not work, consider asking an attorney to contact the agent, request records, and ask them to step down if there are serious concerns.
If you suspect the agent is taking advantage of your parent, and informal steps do not work, you may need to challenge the power of attorney in court. You will need evidence that the agent is negligent, abusive, or acting outside their authority. Your lawyer can help organize that evidence and seek appropriate relief from the court.
You can also file a complaint with Adult Protective Services if you believe your parent is being exploited, neglected, isolated, or financially abused.
Evidence That May Help Stop POA Abuse
If you believe a sibling or another agent is abusing power of attorney, start gathering information as soon as possible. The court will usually need more than suspicion or family conflict before removing an agent or ordering repayment.
- Bank statements showing unusual withdrawals or transfers
- Copies of checks, wire transfers, or account records
- Property records showing suspicious transfers or deed changes
- Text messages, emails, or written statements about financial decisions
- Medical records that may show incapacity or vulnerability
- Witnesses who observed pressure, isolation, or misuse of authority
- Unpaid bills, late notices, or evidence that care expenses were ignored
What Problems Happen if a Power of Attorney Is Abused?
If the judge finds that your sibling has been abusing your parent as power of attorney, the consequences can be serious. Depending on the facts, the agent may face claims involving fraud, embezzlement, exploitation, theft, repayment, removal, or other court-ordered remedies.
Because the consequences are significant, courts do not take these accusations lightly. You will need evidence of financial abuse, neglect, exploitation, or misuse of authority. A legal team familiar with elder abuse, fiduciary duties, and probate-related disputes can help you determine what action makes sense.
It is also important to understand that a power of attorney generally ends when the parent passes away. If disputes continue after death, the issue may shift from POA authority to estate administration, inheritance disputes, or probate court litigation. In that situation, an estate litigation lawyer can help determine what claims may still be available.
Frequently Asked Questions About Power of Attorney Abuse
What are signs that a sibling is abusing power of attorney?
Warning signs may include unexplained withdrawals, missing financial records, sudden changes in spending, isolation from family members, unpaid bills, suspicious property transfers, or a refusal to explain how your parent’s money is being used.
Can a power of attorney keep family members away?
A financial power of attorney generally does not give the agent the right to block access to a parent. A medical power of attorney may have more authority over access if the decision is tied to the parent’s health and safety, but that authority still must be used in the parent’s best interests.
Can the court remove someone who is abusing power of attorney?
Yes. If there is enough evidence that the agent is acting improperly, the court may remove the agent, appoint another decision-maker, order an accounting, require repayment, or take other steps to protect the vulnerable adult.
What happens to power of attorney after death?
A power of attorney usually ends when the person who granted it dies. After death, authority typically shifts to the executor, administrator, or probate court process. If there are concerns about money taken before death, those issues may still be reviewed as part of an estate or fiduciary dispute.
Need Help Dealing With POA Abuse?
If you believe a sibling, agent, or other trusted person is misusing power of attorney, Heban, Murphree & Lewandowski, LLC can help you understand your options and determine the next step.
